Journal

My Plus One

The elephant in the room is loneliness.

Written by:

Tracy Horan

Date:

September 1, 2025

The Details Define Destello

Journal

My Plus One

The elephant in the room is loneliness.

Written by:

Tracy Horan

Date:

September 1, 2025

The Details Define Destello

Journal

My Plus One

The elephant in the room is loneliness.

Written by:

Tracy Horan

Date:

September 1, 2025

The Details Define Destello

The elephant in the room is loneliness. It pops up on solo adventures like an uninvited guest who overstays their welcome.

At first, it feels a bit awkward, the empty chair at dinner, the extra glass on the table, the hotel bed that looks far too big for just you.

Plot twist: loneliness is actually the best travel companion you didn’t know you needed.

Once you stop resisting it, the magic happens. You hear the rhythm of your footsteps on cobblestones, catch the scent of freshly baked bread drifting from a bakery, feel the breeze as it tangles your hair. The world softens when you’re not rushing to fill every silence (and you put that phone down and stop scrolling).

Loneliness is gracious and tender. It dares you to strike up conversations with strangers, wander into that little shop, take a left turn just to see what happens.

It gives you permission to say yes when you’d usually play safe.

That empty chair? It becomes a kind of throne. The big bed? A stage for dreaming up your next adventure.

The quiet transforms into empowerment and discovery. You realize you don’t travel solo, you travel with the best version of yourself: curious, open, brave, and decisive.